Molding Mama's Mane

There seems to be confusion with some people about why someone chooses to have dreads and how they are maintained. One myth is that the hair has to be dirty in order to lock, but the opposite is actually true. In order for the hair to naturally lock and the process to go smooth, it's best for the hair to be clean. For anyone wondering whether or not I can wash my hair, the answer is yes! People choose to create hair locks for various reasons, for some it's a spiritual decision, some a religious one, and others just a hairstyle. But generally it is understood that no matter what leads someone to create dreads, they do represent a type of lifestyle. Some people do misunderstand how to take care of their locks, or may choose to let their hair get "dirty", or don't allow the process to be organic because their hair isn't locking without synthetic products helping it along. Perhaps this leads others to perceive that locks are gross or dirty, however, I can and will wash, condition and maintain my scalp and hair. Both with a dry shampoo (sea salt, vinegar, organic herbs & oil) blend, and also with a normal water rinse. Not only are locks not dirty, locks on men & women are appealing to me, unique and beautiful.

Dread Locks 'The Baby Phase'

I have begun the potentially long process and journey of locking my hair. This part is called the "Baby Phase/Stage", in a series of five locking phases; 'Baby, Child, Adolescent, Adult, & Elder.' The locking stylist/artist I've been blessed to have work on my hair is named Robin. She's a very neat lady and has been locking and maintaining client's hair for 20 + years. She is currently also training a woman named, Ramia, who might eventually take over her Denver based clients. Ramia helped with the start of my first day process. I sat in a chair for about 6 1/2 hours for this first step. No synthetic products or bees wax were used to start my dreads, as Robin works from an organic & natural position. Both Robin and I are very happy with how they turned out, so far. There is a long road of waiting, spiritual focus and awareness, and learning to maintain my locks, ahead of me. However, I feel excited and inspired to have finally begun the process, especially with Robin's help and leadership.